Why isit I only seem to tell my problems too boys? ..?

Women are pretty much compelled to DISCUSS EVERYTHING all through their lives as we are very verbal. This is particularly true in younger women, who have not yet learned much self control. Besides, preteen girls and teenagers, very sadly, can be horribly judgmental. Also if one thinks that some secret told to her is weird in some way, she will feel compelled to tell. This is especially true if the girls are very superficial. The best way to cope is to find one or 2 really good friends, who are very loyal and self confident. That type is the most likely to be trust worthy. And look among the larger m of kids, not just certain cliques. If they are immersed in a "gang", they feel the need to share with other group members. Good luck- you will learn as time goes on how to better judge other women. For now, be careful about who you tell or if you tell anyone at all. The best way to keep a secret is not to tell anyone .